I know how it goes: things get busy and a little chaotic and then we just go on autopilot. We know we should be looking at our time and how we spend it, and make sure we’re doing what matters. We know that. But, if you’re like me, when things get busy, it’s easy to lose sight of the prize. Whether it’s as a mom and things start to slide (you know, laundry) or in your business. For me, with business, this looks like getting really caught up in something: website tweaks, a new pitch, an offer for my mailing list. It could be something totally worthwhile, but it gets all consuming and comes at the expense of other things—ahem, my actual priorities.
It’s BECAUSE I’m so busy and frenetic that these rabbit holes are so appealing: I want something to focus on. I’m exhausted and need to narrow in on something. I know I’m not the only person who experiences this, one of my clients had this exact situation this week. When this happens, we have to take a step back and ask: why do I feel this way?
Dealing with and acknowledging priority shifts
For this particular client, the “aha” moment came when she realized there had been a massive shift in one of her top priorities. We had been working on growing her business, and she had been rolling. Hitting milestones, working hard, achieving her goals. Until this shift. Then things started to slide. She wasn’t getting things done, she wasn’t excited. This is because she had, without realizing it, changed her priorities. Rather than focusing on really aggressively expanding and working in her business, she wanted to step back and put some focus on her family. That’s a pretty big switch!
If we don’t regularly check in with our priorities, we can stay busy and not even realize the shift enough to change the way we spend our time. Guess what? You are allowed to change your priorities, but only you are keeping track of them. No one else is going to be able to adjust your schedule based on these priorities changing.
How to know if you’re not aligning time with priorities
Like me, like my client (in this example and many, many others), you’ll want to take a look at your priorities if you feel overwhelmed, stressed, and like you aren’t making progress. If you achieve the goals or milestones you set out for yourself and STILL feel stuck, something is disconnected. It’s time for a reevaluation of priorities and your time. It can work either way: you’re not spending your time in ways that support your priorities OR your priorities have changed and the things you USED to do to honor those priorities are for the wrong priorities.
Either way, you’ll feel frazzled, frustrated, and ready to throw in the towel.
So, take the time regularly to check in with yourself. Ask yourself how you’re feeling about your time. Are you doing the things that support your priorities? Are they the right priorities? Have you experienced a big change personally or professionally that could shift your priorities? Are you just clueless, frustrated, and don’t even know where to start? Let me help you! This is what I do as a coach. I help you find and stick to your priorities. Contact me today for a free discovery session and we’ll see if we’re a good fit.